1. They shine with confidence

Confident, self-assured women are of great interest to men.

These types of women are not afraid to speak up, aren’t self-conscious or who need constant reassuring.

This is a huge deal for men. If you openly express your confident self, his interest and attraction towards you will skyrocket.

When you feel confident with the woman that you are, and he is sure to notice!

2.They are strong and independent

This shows that you can look after yourself, and you don’t need him.

There is nothing wrong with leaning on your man, but there is a fine line between having someone care and look after you, and relying on them so much it becomes overwhelming for him and he feels you are too clingy,

So, what does this mean?

It means managing your own life, having your own interests, and looking after yourself. This shows you're in control... And he will be drawn to this and find it incredibly sexy.

3. They have a great sense of humor

Having a good sense of humor is huge to men. I mean, who doesn’t love being around someone who can make them laugh and lift their spirits?

But this doesn’t mean you have to suddenly be a walking comedian either!

When you can playfully banter and laugh at each other, what you are actually doing is creating a deep connection with each other, and this is so important.

Humor is sexy...If he knows that he can enjoy a laugh when he’s with you, then he knows he is going to have an exciting time when he’s around you too. 

4. Good communication skills

Men are usually looked at as being poor communicators in the relationship, leaving women feeling rejected or confused as to what they are thinking and feeling.

What’s important to know is that men and woman communicate completely differently, and sometimes need a little more time to open up and discuss the important things in life.

Men like women who can be open and honest and communicate clearly. If you give him the cold shoulder, or do say exactly what it is you want, he will get fed up easily and feel you're playing games (and won’t want to put up with that).

 5. They show appreciation

Everyone loves to feel appreciated.

Men especially crave the satisfying feeling when a woman makes him feel valued and important. It makes them feel as their “role” in the relationship to look after and protect their woman is being fulfilled (and noticed).

Words go a long way. Whether it’s expressing how you value all that he does, or a subtle compliment from time to time, he WILL notice and remember this, and feel like an important part of your life.